It doesn't matter what size stone is thrown into the pool of mind. But what matters is that it stirred the waters. Trauma to the developing mind in particular has a profound effect. There is another point to note. Even if rain water falls on it without falling of stone, it will be disturbed. Even if the bindi is dipped to fill it, the water in the pond becomes cloudy. In other words, this kind of confusion has become natural in mental business. Just as the distant hill is smooth, the distant lake is calm and waveless. As soon as you get closer, you can see that its surface is shaking. Human mind is the same. Everything is beautiful from afar. But the ripples of tumula are visible only when close.
Against this background, an attempt has been made in this article to show how students-teachers-parents can complement each other and form a strong mind and personality.
It is wrong to make children tired under the pretext of discipline. There is no learning without some degree of tension. Learning is an unpleasant experience for all children. But once the taste for reading is acquired, no one can stop such a student. It cannot be forgotten that children also have minds, they also have respect, and they also have rights within the framework of the law. Especially if they are humiliated in front of their peers, they will bear it. So the teacher should be more careful while speaking in the class. Even though children look strong on the outside, there may be a weakness inside. It is better to scold the children when they do something wrong, but to call them to the teacher's room and warn them. In the classroom, the good qualities of the student should be praised in front of everyone. A teacher of children should have Nirvyajapriti. Even if their favorite teacher punishes or scolds them, the children will resist. If at first the children's love earns them respect, even if they are punished a little, they will absorb it and make up for their mistakes. Now the house is not full of children like in the past. There will be one or two. Therefore, they should be educated and educated. When children's minds are engaged in more activities, they become more active, their minds are empty, and negative thinking is avoided. This is what extracurricular activities are for. Teachers should ensure that all children participate in school cultural and sports competitions. There are victories and defeats, pain and humiliation that make children stronger.
Home environment affects the mental strength of students; Mainly the attitudes of the parents. The couple should behave at home so that the child does not feel insecure. If they are the ones who are struggling, or if one or both of them are addicts, it will have an adverse effect on the child. Keeping the TV on all the time, using vulgar words, profanity, and obscene conversation at home should not be done. Children should be taught healthy activities. Both male and female should be taught housework. The feeling that no one is unimportant in the home should be inculcated in the children. Then naturally responsibility arises in them.
Children spend more time at home than at school. So children's minds are formed mostly in the home environment. Along with food, parents should provide children with love, trust, hope, faith and self-sacrifice. Then the children will be strong and able to withstand any pressures not only in school but also in the outside world. All the family members should take part in activities such as traveling together, playing games together, music and literature. Just as children celebrate when they win, their defeat should be accepted with joy. Children should know that losing is not a disgrace. Mainly parents should gain full trust of children. If there is no complete trust, they will not open themselves up, nor will they reveal what is within them. In any case, the child should have an open opportunity to share his feelings with his parents. Children do not lose confidence when they have strong faith that their parents will be with them in spite of the whole world. When children's minds are depressed, it should be recognized and given appropriate help in time to help them improve. Teachers-parents should take careful action in such situations to water the plant before it wilts. May Manonandana flourish, may Balanandana be healthy!
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